Imagine a situation where the love/time/attention of your partner is the food, and you and your metamours are the guests at the buffet, feeding on this valuable resource.

Leanne Yau 3/25/21 Leanne Yau 3/25/21

“You’re Polyamorous? What If Your Partner Leaves?”

The scariest thing about polyamory is that it exposes all the cracks in your relationship. That’s why it’s so important to have a strong and healthy bond, and why people who open up because they’re trying to fix a bad relationship are doomed to fail.

Leanne Yau 2/15/21 Leanne Yau 2/15/21

Let’s Talk About ‘Revenge Dating’ in Polyamory

I’ve come across a toxic phenomenon in the polyamory community which I would like to call “revenge dating”, which is when you date someone for the sole purpose of taking revenge on, or manipulating, someone else.

Leanne Yau 1/15/21 Leanne Yau 1/15/21

Emotional Libertarianism in Polyamory: Are We Responsible for Other People’s Feelings?

Emotional libertarianism, as defined by More Than Two, is “a belief that every individual is entirely responsible for his or her own emotional responses and that person’s behaviour is never the “cause” of another person’s emotion.”

Leanne Yau 11/22/20 Leanne Yau 11/22/20

15 Common Red Flags in Polyamorous Relationships

A significant number of polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous people try to claim that polyamory is an “enlightened” or “evolved” form of doing relationships, but the truth is that there are crappy people in any relationship dynamic. Unfortunately, given the lack of education on how to do polyamory in a healthy way, many people abuse the label “polyamorous” and use it as an excuse for flat-out terrible behaviour.